So, you hear about the magical powers of thinking big: creating your amazing, expansive vision for your life and business and working from that place. Thinking big and having a clear vision about where you want to be and stepping into owning your true awesomeness is very important.Yes, I get that. AND…
…there are times where thinking big in your business actually sabotages your success.
I’m going to share with you three examples of where I want you to think small (and generate massive results because of it).
Like, for example, when you write an email.
When you send out an email to your marketing list, is it “Hey everybody!” or is it, “Hey Jane!”?
I teach my clients to think about one person and to write to that one person. When I put together an email to send out to people in my community, I imagine that I’m writing to an ideal client. One ideal client.
Not only does this make writing it soooo much easier, but it’s also so much easier for the person on the other end of the email to connect with what you have to say.
And please, oh please, don’t ever say that you are going to send out an email “blast.” No one wants to be “blasted,” especially your ideal clients.
Or, when you are hosting a local workshop and you’d love to have the room full of your ideal clients.
One of my clients consistently sells out her local workshops. We put together a marketing plan for her that’s not only easy to follow but actually requires very little work on her part.
The hardest part of the work is when I challenge her to think small.
We start by looking at how many people she’d love to have in the room.
Then we make a list of who she can reach out to personally, by phone (remember the phone?), to invite?
I ask her to consider who she knows, personally, that she’d be honored to have in the room with her. Which of her current clients would benefit from attending? What about past workshop attendees? Or their colleagues and friends? Which ideal clients that said “no” in the past 6 months might be able to step into this type of work with her? Or what about the people she loves that are in her yoga class?
When we break it down and look at the pieces of the puzzle from this small perspective, all of the sudden things get easier.
And more clear.
And the clients and income start to come in consistently and more easily.
(By the way, this is exactly what your ego wants to avoid: getting clear).
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There are times where thinking big in your business actually sabotages your success.
The last place – and the one that most people resist – is choosing an ideal client.
It can feel scary, I get it.
It’s also the most liberating thing that you can do.
If you’re sensing resistance as you read this, I invite you to consider who is driving your bus. Are you coming from a place of lack or a place of abundance? (Hint: if you’re feeling scared and worry that narrowing your focus will only narrow your chances at bringing on clients, then fear is driving your bus.)
What if it’s possible that there are more clients than you could ever serve, even in the most narrow of niches, and that they are all out there, just waiting for you?
What if it’s possible that by narrowing your target market, you are allowing yourself to move forward and get more clear? And serve more clients, and at a higher level?
What if any decision that you make about your ideal client today isn’t permanent?
(By the way, all of those things are possible for you if you get over yourself and let your ego quiet down for a few minutes.)
Would it be OK with you if things started to get a little easier?
Once you take a few minutes to do this, though, I must warn you: opportunities will start to “show up” and growing your business will become easier. Your story of how hard things are will have to be discarded.
So my challenge for you today is this: find one place in your life or business where thinking big is sabotaging your results. It may be making your next step(s) feel unclear, hard, and maybe even impossible.
Share what you come up with below. I’ll respond with ideas about how you can allow yourself to get more clear. And remember, imperfect action brings clarity. And clarity allows results to show up with grace and ease…
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I find myself focused on the “big picture”….what my practice would be like if I had the right number of happy dance clients, as well as the schedule and income I wanted.
Manifesting is something I’ve done well, but now it seems to be restricted. Where am I stuck?….between the “big picture” and filling the room.
This feels like a huge challenge to me as I sit with the thought of thinking small. Will it undo my manifesting of the big picture?
Great questions! Yes, maintain your big amazing vision AND think small in a way that will allow you to get there.
Think of people you know and see everyday. Reach out to them, individually, and offer a Clarity Call to them or their referrals. Thinking small in the way of ‘how can I easily get from where I currently am to my next level?’ Think how great two new clients will feel and then ask yourself, ‘if someone was to offer me $1mil to sign on two new clients, who would I speak to first? And second?’ And then do that.
You are exactly where you are supposed to be and I am so excited for your soon-to-be new clients. 🙂
I’m getting stuck on my messaging and not taking action because I don’t have the perfect words for the next iteration of my website. Trying to be helpful, my friends keep sending me websites for other maternity coaches. I find myself going down the rabbit hole of dissecting their messaging rather than just writing what is true and right to me.
I like to say that when we start comparing ourselves or our business (or our lives!), we fall into the “compare and despair” trap. While your friends are trying to be helpful, it sounds like an opportunity for you to step up as CEO of your business and thank them while explaining what WOULD be helpful (or ignore their suggestions for now) and pursue what you know to be true for you and your business. Are you friends business owners, too?
Action comes from clarity, so my challenge to you is to get into imperfect action. You’ll thank me later for this, I promise! Don’t wait to “get clear” to get into action because that’s exactly what leads you to the point of frustration, working too hard, and not moving forward and impacting more peoples lives. Your future clients need you!
Does that help, Jenny?